As I’ve mentioned before, clergy with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) or even just narcissistic personality traits, can have a devasting effect on a parish and the spiritual lives of parishioners and other clergy.
Dealing with clergy suffering with NPD is a challenge and few of us are equipped to do so effectively. This is why I’m posting Anna Kucirkova’s essay What You Need To Know About Narcissistic Personality Disorder. I found the information helpful and I hope you do as well.
Here’s the introduction:
Narcissism is a word we usually throw around for people who take one too many selfies or double take when they walk by a mirror or a reflective building.
But narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a serious psychological disorder that involves patterns of self-centered thinking–but not quite in the way we think. Instead, people with NPD typically have a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, coupled with an excessive need for affirmation, admiration, or acknowledgment.
These needs may come across as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, or demanding. This may manifest itself in professional, personal, and romantic relationships, which can lead to problems that are far more serious and diverse than someone being “a little too into” their own selfies.
In order to help you better understand the disorder, we’re going to dive into the what, why, and how of NPD.